When is it considered okay to have close family members kiss the baby

When is it considered okay to have close family members kiss the baby?

The short answer is to wait until the baby is 3 months old.

The longer answer is as follows: The AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) generally advises parents and siblings to avoid kissing newborns, especially on the face, for the first few months of life due to their still-developing immune systems.

While the AAP doesn't mention a specific age for when it's okay to start kissing a baby, most experts recommend waiting at least 2-3 months, or even longer during RSV, flu, and cold season.

Here's a more detailed explanation:

Immune System Development: Newborns have immature immune systems, making them more susceptible to infections.

Germ Transmission: Kissing, especially on the face, can easily transmit germs and viruses from the kisser's mouth to the baby. Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV): RSV is a common respiratory virus that can be particularly dangerous for young infants.

When to Reconsider: Once a baby is around three months old, its immune system begins to function more robustly, making it less vulnerable to infections.

Individual Circumstances: The best approach may vary depending on the specific situation, such as the baby's health, the parents' comfort level, and the likelihood of exposure to illness.

Alternative Affection: Parents and siblings can show affection in other ways, such as gentle touches, cuddling, or blowing kisses.

We hope this helps.

Dr. Garofalo and the team at Pediatric Dream Care.

Mylai Garofalo, MD, FAAP. Pediatrician/President 3199 Lake Worth Rd. Ste B-2, Palm Springs, FL 33461 P: (561)-621-1801 / F: (561)-331-4603 / e-F: (561)-288-4532 E: pediatricdreamcare@gmail.com W: www.pediatricdreamcare.com

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